Category Archives: Thoughts on Life

I realized long ago that I’m not the type of person that people write love songs about. I’m not even the type of person that people dedicate love songs to, or for that matter even relate to when listening to music. While that might sound self-deprecating, or seriously jaded, I feel the truth deep withinContinue reading “Good Old Fashioned Love Songs”

I am female. I’m comfortable in my gender identity. I’m comfortable in my sexuality. What I’m not comfortable with is my lack of understanding regarding my body, or my sexual pleasure. When I was growing up, my mother always prioritized my vulva, and my vagina as my most important body parts. “Don’t ever let anyoneContinue reading “The Joys? of Sex.”

Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day 2022. I’ve never enjoyed Valentine’s Day. The artificial sweetness professed as “true love,” acrid chocolates placed in heart-shaped boxes, and anvil-like pressure placed upon partners to present the “best gift ever” disgust me. Why would I need my partner to spend hundreds, or thousands of dollars to profess love to meContinue reading “Back in MY Day…”

Did you do it? It’s okay, I’ve been there too. In fact, I live “it” on a daily basis. “It” lives outside me because “it’s” too large to fit within the confines of my skin. “It” is my vulnerability, and I wear it like a cloak, a shadow, a name. I understand if you blinkedContinue reading “Stuck…The Sequel”

Sometimes You Need the Lyrics, Sometimes You Need the Tune The clouds in your mind are thick. They consume your thoughts and feelings. Ache tugs at your heart, while your body vibrates to its own high stressed frequency. Sounds surround you. They confine you to space where you lack control. Claustrophobic in an open space,Continue reading “Do You Need the Lyrics, or the Music?”

When you live your life as a “stuck” person, make sure no one knows your struggles. The minute you walk out into the world, and someone recognizes your position: BOOM the expectations will strike – HARD. What is a “stuck” person? A person who is trapped for reasons either their own, or those imposed byContinue reading “Living Life as a “Stuck” Person”